I've been in a sexless marriage for about ten years now. He's getting older, and can't get it up as well. He's also not really interested in me in that way to start with. I guess being married for so long does that. I've noticed him looking at other women a certain way, and I've even found myself doing something similar with other men. I don't see the point in becoming a nun and going through the rest of my life in a sexless marriage, so after having a chat with my husband, we decided to start seeing other people. I do love him, but I'm just not happy with our sex life.
Given the fact that I've been out of the dating scene for so long, and I live in the kind of place where everyone knows everyone else's business, it wasn't exactly easy for me to find a new man. I didn't see the point in joining a single's dating site, since I'm not technically single. I couldn't really ask my friends to set me up on a blind date. I'm too old for the club scene. I was starting to think I would be stuck in my sexless marriage forever.
After spending a bit of time searching for single men in the UK who were up to having a relationship with a married woman, I found a site called LocalCheatingWives.co.uk. I was a bit anxious at first, since I had never done the internet-dating thing before, but it was so easy to register and create a profile, I figured that there wouldn't be much harm. Quite soon after I updated my profile, I was contacted by a young man who seemed quite friendly and rather good looking. When I asked him what he was doing contacting an old grannie like me, he told me that he's always appreciated the skills and attention that an older woman can give to a younger man. I wasn't going to pass that by!
Thanks to LocalCheatingWives.co.uk, I was able to meet a few men just like that first that approached me, and I was meeting them on dates every couple of weeks. I was looking for a good ole fashioned romance, as well as the satisfaction that I couldn't find in my sexless marriage. I wasn't looking to get married again, but I didn't quite want a one night stand, if you know what I mean. That is the great thing about LocalCheatingWives.co.uk. It's for married women, but it's not just a place to look for a no strings attached get together. If you would like to have a companion for friendship and a bit more, it can accommodate you as well.
I even have suggested it to a couple friends, who like me, were in sexless marriages. We were even able to get to know a few of the other ladies on the site, and we get together now to exchange stories and advise on how to handle these younger men! Not only was LocalCheatingWives.co.uk a place for me to seek out a new boyfriend, communicate with them, and provide a way for my friends to also get themselves a new companion, it's a place where I made a few new friends who were in the same boat as I was.
LocalCheatingWives.co.uk may not have been the answer to solving my issues with my husband, but at the very least, it's given me an outlet to make myself feel better, as well as meet the men who can keep me company when I need a bit of a pick me up!